Not Your Average Black Woman Supposedly I am a cynic, but in reality I am a pretty chill gal. I dig indie alternative/soul/hip-hop, films, pop culture, novels, newspapers, geek things, sex, witty conversations, and the list goes on. I’m always told I’m not your average black girl, and I’m not sure if I should be offended or actually flattered. I’m usually pretty offended. My name’s Bianca, a 21 year-old college student at SUNY Purchase. A journalist in the making, and a poet at night.Tumblr (3.0; @thefoxxypoet)http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/<p>Watching X-Men til I knock out.</p>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23915458045http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23915458045Mon, 28 May 2012 02:00:24 -0400night<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ptv5cYlv1rwslx3o1_r1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23912901902http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23912901902Mon, 28 May 2012 00:59:28 -0400bobs burger<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lzu9o3OAMP1qmlafko1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23912740918http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23912740918Mon, 28 May 2012 00:56:07 -0400Kanye WestI miss this Kanye but hey everyone evolves and changes<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ppbliclG1qex4r5o1_500.png"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4ppbliclG1qex4r5o2_500.png"/><br/> <br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23912619613http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23912619613Mon, 28 May 2012 00:53:33 -0400Sailor Moonawwanime<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4k2zqiFhc1qbyihao1_500.gif"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4k2zqiFhc1qbyihao2_500.gif"/><br/> <br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23911065955http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23911065955Mon, 28 May 2012 00:22:44 -0400The Craft<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4pn52kKwG1r026e6o1_400.png"/><br/><br/><p>I hate this…I listen to all that indie alternative rock shit guyyysss.</p>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23910064200http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23910064200Mon, 28 May 2012 00:04:14 -0400I listen to a lot of different things<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m3zqn9KVhz1rpp7hpo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909452298http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909452298Sun, 27 May 2012 23:53:10 -0400meh meh meh yeah“<p>This is actually a huge issue for me in terms of the kinds of men I attract/am attracted to. I often attract “conscious”/”feminist” Black men who have said things to me like “you’re so different” or “you’re not like those OTHER (ratchet, uneducated, unclassy, unintelligent) Black women” and it blows my mind that they think denigrating other Black women is the way to my heart (or any other part of me).</p> <p>Women are not deserving of human treatment if and only if they live up to your standards of intelligence, femininity, class, etc. Women are deserving of human treatment 100% of the time because women are human 100% of the time. And that goes for all women—that means strippers and video girls and single mothers and sex workers and drug addicts. That means women with weaves and relaxers. That means queer women, even if they will never be your wife or your girlfriend or even your friend. That means trans women. ALL WOMEN DESERVE HUMAN TREATMENT.</p>”<br/><br/> - <em> because someone asked me to make what i said in response to <a href="http://sourcedumal.tumblr.com/post/22619378702/black-feminist-men-pedestals">this</a> rebloggable. (via <a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ethiopienne.tumblr.com/">ethiopienne</a>)</em>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909221282http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909221282Sun, 27 May 2012 23:48:54 -0400my life in a quote<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4pqyws1b11r98mc7o1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://blackfemalesuperheroes.tumblr.com/post/23908082070/lois-lane-in-black-face-superman">blackfemalesuperheroes</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>Lois Lane in Black face (Superman)</p> </blockquote>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909173141http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909173141Sun, 27 May 2012 23:48:00 -0400ughhh<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4hx4ygE1z1qb7ikeo1_500.gif"/><br/><br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909040568http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909040568Sun, 27 May 2012 23:45:33 -0400Romeo and Juliet<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4nmd2Tp081qa3v6io1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://cris-art.tumblr.com/post/23890827478/true">cris-art</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>That is true  >_</</p> </blockquote>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909006056http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23909006056Sun, 27 May 2012 23:44:55 -0400Just was talking about this<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m1z283zzrL1qcy67xo1_500.png"/><br/><br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23905603614http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23905603614Sun, 27 May 2012 22:45:48 -0400slc punk<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m2a3eaNQYD1qcm16uo1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23903552360http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23903552360Sun, 27 May 2012 22:12:22 -0400Arrested Development<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4pn52TCSG1qbrimro1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4pn52TCSG1qbrimro2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4pn52TCSG1qbrimro3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4pn52TCSG1qbrimro4_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://afro-art-chick.tumblr.com/post/23903125846/cool-is-not-just-one-type-of-cool-cool-is">afro-art-chick</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><em>“Cool is not just one type of cool. Cool is confidence and knowing, I guess, what you are and being fine with it. Some people can be what people call ‘nerds’ and they’re cool because they know they’re nerds. They know what they are and they’re so confident in knowing what they are that that makes them cool, and somebody aspires to be like them, because they’re fine with it. It’s confidence, you know.”</em></p> <p><em><strong>Happy 38th Birthday to </strong></em><span class="st"><strong><em>rapper, actor </em><em>and </em><em>fashion designer, </em></strong></span><em><strong> <span class="st">André Lauren Benjamin, better known by his stage name André 3000</span></strong><span class="st"> </span><strong><span class="st">(b. May 27, 1974)</span></strong></em></p> </blockquote>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23903488931http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23903488931Sun, 27 May 2012 22:11:20 -0400Andre 3000<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://monochromaticblack.tumblr.com/post/23886763912/sometimes-my-taste-in-music-gives-me-chills-at">monochromaticblack</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>sometimes my taste in music gives me chills. at times I just sit there shivering with my headphones on. I mean.. it’s so good. it’s almost unfair. I pity people who don’t know good music, I really do.</p> </blockquote>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23902759092http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23902759092Sun, 27 May 2012 21:59:41 -0400lol<img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1r6zwzpt1qcfrkwo1_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1r6zwzpt1qcfrkwo2_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1r6zwzpt1qcfrkwo3_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1r6zwzpt1qcfrkwo4_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1r6zwzpt1qcfrkwo5_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1r6zwzpt1qcfrkwo6_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ls1r6zwzpt1qcfrkwo7_500.jpg"/><br/> <br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://ghdos.tumblr.com/post/23198584047/dear-future-girlfriend-173-ive-never-spent-a">ghdos</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><strong>“Dear Future Girlfriend” #173:</strong> I’ve never spent a day like this. Ever. It’s time to change that.</p> </blockquote>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23902647395http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23902647395Sun, 27 May 2012 21:57:52 -0400more cute couple shitI have done this a few times<p>I remember that stage&#8230;taking tons of pictures with whatever guy I was dating at the moment. The irony is after we broke up all of those pictures were deleted&#8230;so there&#8217;s no proof that we were actually happy together.</p>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23901834138http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23901834138Sun, 27 May 2012 21:44:52 -0400thoughts“lemme love you just like i am/ a colored girl/ i’m finally bein <br/> real/ no longer symmetrical & impervious to pain”<br/><br/> - <em>Ntozake Shange (via <a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://wretchedoftheearth.tumblr.com/">wretchedoftheearth</a>)</em>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23901552624http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23901552624Sun, 27 May 2012 21:40:23 -0400Ntozake Shange<img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_m4c3wkBTsb1qdok4ro1_500.jpg"/><br/><br/><p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://babstheartist.tumblr.com/post/23430495181">babstheartist</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p>I want some booty shawts with that on it.</p> </blockquote>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23901122038http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23901122038Sun, 27 May 2012 21:33:28 -0400lol<p><a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://luvyourselfsomeesteem.tumblr.com/post/23900118800/someone-give-me-what-i-need">luvyourselfsomeesteem</a>:</p> <blockquote> <p><em>I need a man, a boy toy, a fling anything pronto</em></p> <p><em>It be getting tough in these late night hours … or like round 9pm.</em></p> <p><em>I can’t do this no more, my summer hormones is fucking sky high</em></p> <p><em>Seeing all these men all the time when I’m out.</em></p> <p><em>All this attraction and I can’t have none of them.</em></p> <p><em>Fuck this son, fuck this so much. <strong>deadass.</strong></em></p> </blockquote>http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23900993665http://thefoxxypoet.tumblr.com/post/23900993665Sun, 27 May 2012 21:31:23 -0400for reallllWhy must you live so far away?